9 Ways To Make Your New Year Resolution Succeed
Wednesday, December 31st, 2008
New Year is the time of a new beginning, that once a year blue moon opportunity to make a real change. A time when many people, make New Year resolutions…but forget them by January 15th.
Here are 9 ways to ensure your success this year and make 2009 your personal year of success, in spite of the doom and gloom around you.
1. Take a long hard look at what it is you would like to change. Keep it simple and achieve one goal before you attempt another. The biggest key to this is to be brutally honest with yourself.
2. Take another long hard look at yourself and assess if the benefit of what you would like to change is really worthwhile.
3. You need to have a really good motivating reason to want to make the change. Without that you will never succeed.
4. Write down some major and minor goals. Make sure your goals are realistic and achievable.
5. Make a large sign for yourself, of what you would like to achieve and place it where only you can see it, e.g. “I must learn to be more of a negotiator instead of a confrontationist. (This means having more patience with those around me on a day to day basis.) Because we unconsciously influence those we are in close contact with, I must choose to influence them with my patience, instead of confrontation. This in turn will impact my life in a major way and lead to a greater success in 2009.”
6. Place your sign where it is private, e.g. your drawer where you keep your underwear. You alone can keep a check on your progress.
7. Put some real effort into the sign so you will daily remind yourself how important this is to you. Or write it on a distinctive piece of paper, so it will stand out in its hiding place.
8. Remember it takes three weeks to make or break a habit, so put a date on your sign. Make yourself a graph of 21 days. At a set time each day pause for a few minutes to note down your progress. Adjust your goals if you need to as you go along.
9. Your reward will be in the end results. However, there is No Gain Without Pain, that is why it has to be a really worthwhile goal.
My personal Goal: 2009 is not going to be an easy year for anyone. Only those who have learned to bend with the winds of change will succeed in the coming year. Everyone needs space to adapt, be it in business or personal relationships. I need to give others more time to adjust to my ideas, or vice versa. You can gain the whole world, but end up the loneliest person in it.
Good luck in your New Year. Make 2009 work for you. No matter what the future holds, someone will succeed in it. They always have. Make sure that someone is you.







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